Finally, as 2020 shuffles to a close, it looks like (some) things are getting better:
- No more Trump and his hate-mongering policies
- The Biden/Harris administration will be a voice of sanity and balance
- The vaccines are coming!
Yes, we can breathe. But, can we relax and completely drop our guard?
I think not. Consider:
- About 49% of American voters supported Trump. That means that half the country fell for his bullsh*t. How can we reconnect with these brothers and sisters (oh, yes they are, even if you donโt want to admit it) and forge ahead? Can we meet somewhere in the middle?
- Mitch McConnell continues to dominate the Senate, and he is, arguably, as bad as Trump (maybe worse).
- What will happen in Georgia? Will we get two victories and have a slim Senate majority? Less than that could make it tough to pass any legislation in the Senate for the next four years.
- As minorities, we have a lot of Trump-created damage to recover from. As LGBTQ people, women, people of color, immigrants and disenfranchised folks, we have many challenges before us. For example, how do we support the legitimate concerns of the BLM movement to address systemic racism? How can we help law enforcement do its job better?
- What will the newly-conservative Supreme Court do?
By all means, letโs breathe deeply and celebrate our victories. We have a gay mayor and a democrat-dominated city and county government. There is so much potential for good here in San Diego.
Letโs also be mindful that we need to stay strong and vigilant, as we move forward. Letโs take the skill set that we used in the recent elections and apply it in the coming year(s).
As 2020 comes to a close, letโs give ourselves some credit for getting through a very trying year. โThe Great Pauseโ, as some call the pandemic, has forced us to make big changes in how we live: the emotional and economic uncertainty of COVID, the elections and the cancellation of many important events has made 2020 a really tough year for most people I know.
As 2021 approaches, letโs keep breathing and be open to new things. COVID and Trump will both, hopefully, fade away. What will we do when things return to โnormalโ? What new things do we want for 2021? What have we learned from โThe Great Pauseโ that weโd like to keep doing when the pause is over and the pace of life speeds up again?
โMichael Kimmel is a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in helping LGBT clients achieve their goals and deal with anxiety, depression, grief, sexually addictive behavior, coming out, relationship challenges and homophobia. Contact him at 619-955-3311 or visit lifebeyondtherapy.com.
